More random thoughts: pre-daddy sugestion. Every chance you get "talk to the belly" I can not stress this enough. I did this with my first son and now twelve year later I did the same with my new son. You will be amazed at how your baby will respond to your voice the second they are born. I noticed it more with my second son but is wild to see your baby react to your voice. When I went over to where the nurses were cleaning him up and started talking to him and he instantly stopped crying and turn toward me. That was a great feeling and now a few weeks later he still turns when he hears me. Come to think about it my twelve year old responds pretty quickly to my voice still. More to come........